I'm not here to tell you that you should only breastfeed ever and not to give your kid formula. I realize for some people that formula is necessary or preferred and I am totally okay with that. In fact, with Bugs, I exclusively breastfed for 4 months, then supplemented until 6 months and then he did formula only until he was a year old. That's just what worked out for me at that time. I was working full time, pumping is mind numbingly dull and that's how it happened.
This time around, however, I am able to stay home with my bebe and I plan on only breastfeeding until he is at least a year old. For some reason, people keep trying to talk me into giving him formula. Like I am making it too hard on myself to breastfeed exclusively. It is hard, and there have been a few soirees I have had to miss out on because I didn't have time to prepare and have milk pumped. I try to pump once a day so that I have a little stock on hand, but sometimes that shit just doesn't happen (mind numbingly dull.)
People, I am okay with this. If I have to miss an event because my babes won't get fed breast milk that night, I am fucking fine with it. This is my choice, my sacrifice and my gift to my baby. I think I should be getting a fucking award for that rather than criticized about how I could make it easier on myself. I would never take it upon myself to tell someone formula feeding that they should be breastfeeding because it is cheaper (or whatever the reason.)
And that is all.
Good for you!!
ReplyDeleteEh, I think people try to get you to stop because they feel guilt about their own decision to not breastfeed (not that I think there is anything wrong with that).
ReplyDeleteGood for you! It's definitely more work, but well worth the effort!
It's such an individual choice. That anyone should even be discussing for one second what you do with your boobs is absurd to me and almost humorous. Mind your business people!
ReplyDeleteI agree....with you and with Oak. Assholes are not cool enough for your company anyways.
ReplyDeleteSo proud of you for acknowledging that some events don't get to happen because you are nursing. That is the choice we make for the benefit of our kids from the very beginning. Way to go for having the dedication to stick with it.
ReplyDeleteAmen. I totally agree with Kelly and Oak as well!
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