Well, he's been sleeping longer and longer each night, sometimes actually making it through 8 hours. Woo hoo!! But there are some nights he still wakes up a lot. Like a lot, a lot. The other night he was whining and making noises and I was just too damn tired to get up and get him, so I just decided to let him cry for a minute. And guess what? He went back to sleep. Of course, I was awake after that, but it started an experiment... let him cry and see what happens. There still are times he wakes up, but sometimes, he just goes back to sleep. This has lead me to believe that it is time to transition him to the crib. I've tried it for 2 nights in a row now.
It is not going so well.
He was awake pretty much every 2 hours both nights. Until finally, I was so tired, I pulled him in to bed and nursed him til we both fell asleep. I do love having him in my room with me, but damn, I'm fucking tired! I can't remember how this all played out the first time I had a kid because that was like forever ago. I'm pretty sure we had him in his crib from birth because I was all, children can not share a bed with us! OMG! That would be the WORST!! And now I'm more of a this baby is going to grow up at lightning speed, don't miss a THING!!!
So here I am, tired and still sharing my bed/room with a squirming, squeaking, puking little munchkin. We'll try the crib again tonight. Any tips/advice are appreciated...
Hmmm...My only advice would be this - be consistent. If he thinks crying will get him into your bed (good thing all men don't think that) then cry he will.
ReplyDeleteMac's been in his crib since two weeks and its only in the past few months that he's actually LIKING his crib and I find that's because I know longer bring him into mine to feed him. At least that's my guess.
Now all of sudden the kid will just lay in there and hang out. THis morning he was in there talking to himself for about 20 minutes before I went it to say hi. Bizarro.
Sleep has been our nemesis - it's hard. So tired of being tired all the time, that jet lag/hangover feeling is the pits.
ReplyDeleteThe best advice I ever got was, if you try something new, keep at it for a week before you change it up again. Give it 7 days to see if everyone might settle in to the new pattern. I think it was from Moxie. That's been my rule of thumb (although sometimes I make it 4 nights instead of 7). Good luck!!!!